ADOPTION INTERVIEWERS
“I want a dog that doesn’t sniff visitors.”
“The dog can’t chew toys or eat or dig up flowers.”
“My children will react if dogs lick them. I need a
dog that does not lick or drool.”
“The Golden cannot lift his leg to urinate since we
have thousands of evergreen trees of all sizes.”
Yes, our adoption interviewers really have heard it all!
These are just some of the memorable conversations our
volunteers have had in the course of speaking with hundreds
of potential applicants. Although GRRI’s written application
is thorough, the telephone interview is our first
opportunity to get a good sense for what’s special about
each household and understand the unique qualities that
might make for a great home for one of our dogs.
If some of our applicants don’t quite have the right idea
about what they’re looking for (as those quotes might
suggest!), other applicants seem to appear right when we
need them most. Ruth Osman, who coordinates our adoption
interviewer team, remembers a few such occasions:
"One of my first interviews was with a very
young-at-heart senior citizen named Priscilla Lynch. I’ll
never forget her saying ‘this old gal would love to have
another old gal to spend her life with.’ Around that same
time we just happened to have saved the sweetest dog from a
kill shelter in South Jersey named Benjamin (look for his
pictures and story on the Success Stories section of GRRI’s
website at
www.grrinj.org/success
). Benjamin looked like he was about 10,
more or less, and I thought who in the world is going to
adopt a dog we don’t even know the age of? Priscilla got her
old man instead of an old gal, but they were a match made in
heaven.
Then there was Meg. Meg was already in her second
foster home. She was unsocialized and had some behavioral
issues, making her truly a difficult dog to place. I
interviewed the Brockhardt family, and my first question was
’why do you want to adopt a dog from GRRI?’ Their answer
was ‘we want a dog that no one else wants, a difficult dog,
one that needs a lot of time and a lot of work.’ I spent
some time exploring with them further to be sure they knew
what they were saying! – but they did, and now Meg is doing
so well with the Brockhardts. Best of all, I get to see her
at reunions!"
Shayne Murray, GRRI President, has a similar memory:
“The most memorable adoption interview I ever did was
4 years ago. We had a pair of seniors in rescue that needed
to be placed together (Rusty and Lacey). Seniors are hard
enough to place, but a pair of seniors is a real challenge
to place together. I began what I thought would be a routine
adoption interview, but found myself wowed with the answers
for each question I asked; it was clear to me that this
applicant was as good as they come! Near the end of the
interview, ‘Marie’ commented that she had spotted Rusty and
Lacey on our website and they were interested in giving them
a home. We concluded the interview and when I hung up I
almost cried because I was so happy for this senior pair!
Indeed, everything progressed well with our home visit and
final approval, and Rusty and Lacey moved to their forever
home. The Falcones could have adopted any Golden, but they
reached out to help seniors and special needs dogs. The love
the Falcones have for the senior Goldens still touches me to
this day!”
Many volunteers find that being adoption interviewers
allows them to devote time to GRRI in manageable time
periods. Typically, the telephone interview takes between
30-60 minutes to conduct, and then another 30 minutes to
document. Thus, volunteers can take on interview assignments
when they find they have just a little time to spare for us.
Several interviewers cited the pride they feel when “their”
adopters complete an adoption with us, knowing that their
initial work made the difference in bringing together a dog
in need with a terrific home.
Our adoption interviewers use an outline to guide them
through the process, ensuring that the areas of particular
interest to us are covered during the conversation. Aside
from trying to determine if the applicant is well suited to
life with a Golden, the phone interview is also a good time
to establish any unique considerations the applicant might
have that may make them especially suitable for particular
circumstances. Because the process is well defined, our hope
is that both successful and unsuccessful applicants feel
that we asked the right questions for the right reasons, and
understand our foremost priority of finding the right match
between our dogs’ needs and the applicant’s unique
situation.
And we know that somewhere there is a great home waiting
to be found for each of our dogs. Ruth Osman puts it best:
“I look at our applications every day and one of
these days the right one will be there for our
harder-to-adopt dogs. A perfect one from heaven would be
great for Harry Potter; I’m going to interview someone who
will say they want a wonderful senior and it doesn’t matter
if he can’t hear as long as he can love and be loved. I just
know it’s going to happen!”
Indeed, we know we’ll find the right home for Harry
Potter and each of the other special dogs whose future we’re
entrusted with. The vital first step is to learn as much as
we can about our adopters, and the telephone interview makes
that all possible. We’re always happy to welcome new
volunteers who would like to do even just a few interviews!
And to those who have helped with this important task
already, you have our thanks.